A simple nikah according to Shariah leads to barakah in marriage

“If a man is marrying a practicing woman then he needs to fixate on the principles of pardah she carries. I'm really disappointed by the idea of men for their wives to be comfortable with his family members taking her pictures on marriage day. It's the duty & responsibility of husband to set boundaries for his family, she has been doing pardah for so long & can't be expected to be okay with pics taken by her in laws & then circulating it. If bride is concerned about her pardah on wedding day it's the responsibility of her spouse to make sure her pardah is well maintained & not diluted by his family members. "Ek din chalta hai" doesn't work for Allah's law. We hear and we obey please.

A simple nikah according to Shariah leads to barakah in marriage. Don't expect to cross the boundaries of Allāh ﷻ and think you will not face any consequences. EVERY SIN HAS A CONSEQUENCE. how many marriages might have failed just because the beginning was not right?. You can't start such an essential chapter of your life by disobeying the one who made it possible for you to be able to get married yaa'ni Allāh ﷻ. In fact it should be the time when you please Him ﷻ more and obey Him ﷻ more and there is a huge shift coming in your life in a certain way. If Allāh ﷻ doesn't make it easy who else will? My main concern is WHO SAID BEING HAPPY MEANS DISOBEYING ALLĀH?

A man/woman having liberal ideology, if they can't sustain the idea of simple nikah & know that they don't have such gaols baraye meherbani stop ruining the life of other potential and drop the plan. If you aren't able to provide your other half a sense of islamic security at the beginning of your relationship how about being able to do that throughout your life?. If you as man/woman know you don't have audacity to withstand your family members, don't ruin someone else's life by playing with their islamic priorities. EVERY MAN AND WOMAN SHOULD KNOW WHAT THEY ARE EXACTLY INVESTING IN WHEN IT COMES TO THEIR MARITAL LIFE. Beginning is an insight to upcoming life. Reflect.

Most of the desi families are compelled to idea of investing a lot in marriages because 'laug kya kahenge' but our main concern should be 'Allah dekh Raha hai'. Allāh ﷻ doesn't like extravagance. He doesn't like fizool kharchi. SAD EXTREMELY SAD. Any person with intellect would dismiss the idea. Just to show people, we have become blind at our approaches. Sick. sick approaches. Do a simple nikah with basic necessary things, save the money feed the poor and see how your children (couple) will have blessed marriage. The people won't even bother to make duaa for your child. Please!

Lastly, the couple should be coordinated together and should be strict at their simple nikah approaches. The real Zeenat of marriage lies in keeping Allāh ﷻ at the centre of it all. You can't start it with sidelining your rabb. In fact these are the times to know the level of Taqwa, relationship you have with Allāh ﷻ. Marriage doesn't come with ticket to sin. It doesn't. The more you sin, the more you'll have to face the consequences. Focus on your lifelong goal Ikhwan/Akhwaat please. Your marriage is your work on a longer term, don't let someone else's desire to be pleased ruin your nikah for you. #STAND.FOR.ASAAN.NIKAH